Even if I were half gay- which I am not- the fact that I find feminine men attractive if it were dictated by my sexual preference would prove that it's not something to insult them for/ not unnatural. Everyone has different tastes. More or less my point.
nothing, femininity is a female trait and when we see men acting/posing feminine it clashes. A lot of people then ask "why should gender matter?", the fact is that most of the western world has only recently accepted transsexuals/transgenders and the utopia wherein we don't care about gender or sex is still such a long way from us. The world is just not ready yet.
Oh, I know that- but to insult a male for looking feminine is stupid. Personally I don't believe it clashes, but it's nice that other gender types are starting to be recognized, yes. Though you can be a straight male and be 'feminine' too.